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Homosexuality, Marriage, and Religion

August 12th, 2010

According to recent “lies, damn lies or statistics” I read somewhere, most people now wish Proposition 8 had never passed. Some of them probably think that California has more important stuff to worry about – unemployment, approaching bankruptcy and/or foreclosure, undocumented democrats aliens arriving by the truckload from Arizona to be fed, housed and provided medical care and the like at taxpayer expense from an eroding tax base. The gang populations of California, already substantial, may be augmented. Some folks may now view trying to keep homosexuals from marrying each other as “like, so yesterday” and had rather go play with their hula hoops, enjoy their recreational drugs and tend to the needs of their pet rocks; or whatever. It seems unlikely that Californians have suffered physical, economic or other substantial harm as a result of the homosexual marriages which have already taken place; few heterosexual marriages have likely been destroyed because of them and it seems unlikely that heterosexuals who were heretofore inclined to marry will change their minds. I think it would have been better had the federal court case never got started, because in its present posture it seems likely to end in frustration for those, like me, who think the Tenth Amendment is and should remain viable; the Proposition 8 case may leave it in an intensive care ward in some underfunded and understaffed public hospital at the mercy of ObamaCare. Battles should be chosen wisely and resources should be conserved for the most important fights; there are lots of them.

Judge Walker’s August 4 decision in Perry v. Schwarzenegger has come under vigorous attack from many but not all conservatives and occasionally even stronger attack from some but hardly all on the religious right. It has been praised to the heavens by many on the left, but the reception from gay rights advocates has not been consistently favorable. For example, Michael Dorf wrote:

The prospect of a Supreme Court ruling on same-sex marriage fills members of the gay-rights advocacy community (of which I am at least a fellow traveler if not a full-fledged participant) with both hope and dread. By denying a right to same-sex marriage, the Justices could set the cause back a decade or more. And paradoxically, even by recognizing a right to same-sex marriage, the Supreme Court could harm the movement, because such a ruling could spark a backlash.

I have a sense that the case was poorly handled by the Proposition 8 proponents; the refusal of Governor Schwarzenegger and Attorney General Brown to support Proposition 8 probably hurt the proponents’ chances. If states have the authority to define marriage based on traditional values, Judge Walker could probably have received better assistance from the Proposition 8 proponents than he did.

When Judge Walker issued his August 4 decision, he imposed a temporary stay on its implementation. On August 7, the governor and attorney general asked Judge Walker to terminate the stay. The proponents of Proposition 8 asked that the stay remain in effect pending appeal. On August 12, Judge Walker ruled, keeping the stay in effect only until August 18 to give the Ninth Circuit an opportunity to rule on a stay sought there. He indicated that since the State of California had opposed its extension, the proponents of Proposition 8 face no apparent harm from its denial and probably have no legal basis for seeking one. “Both plaintiffs and the state defendants have disavowed the harms identified by proponents.” The question of a stay and other matters will be before the Ninth Circuit and whatever it says may well tip its hand as to how it will ultimately rule on the merits of the appeal. Be that as it may, there are some perhaps larger issues to consider.

In writing my August 5 article on Judge Walker’s decision, I wore my attorney hat and tried to present legal analysis without advocacy. For this article, I have removed my hat.

I strongly favor states’ rights and think that the Tenth Amendment of the Constitution has long been improperly curtailed. Nevertheless, states also seem occasionally to stick their noses where they do not belong and multiple county and municipal governments occasionally do the same thing. The Federal Government, while bigger and often more overbearing, has no monopoly.

Religion is generally a force for good in the United States. That I don’t have any doesn’t bother me and should not be a matter of concern for others either; as far as I am aware, it isn’t. Those who, for religious or other reasons, want to pray, to argue that life begins at the moment of conception or that homosexual marriage is sinful have every right to do so. When advocating and voting on issues, they have every right to do so in accordance with their beliefs. My views on the rationality or irrationality of their beliefs don’t matter and shouldn’t; neither should the views of a judge. Freedom of religion is also good, provided that its exercise does not impinge upon my rights or those of others; I would not appreciate someone holding a prayer vigil or, for that matter, displaying an “Elvis Lives!” sign while trespassing on my front lawn or throwing holy water or anything else at me as I walk down a public sidewalk; I have experienced nothing of the sort. Freedom from religion is also good, provided that it does not impinge unduly upon the rights of those who desire to be religious. Those who don’t want to celebrate Christmas need not do so but have no business preventing others. I don’t object to Christmas trees, reasonably non-denominational voluntary prayer or Christmas carols in public schools, provided that nobody who does not desire to participate is pressured to do so on pain of penalty or even expressions of disapproval by teachers and other school officials. If other students want to express verbal disapproval of non-participating students, tough; it’s a part of life and they had better become accustomed to that sort of thing. Kids and even alleged adults hatefully express public disapproval for all sorts of lawful things which do not harm them or others – wearing unfashionable shoes, outdated hairstyles and the like. There was lots of disgusting campaign commentary about Governor Palin. The “easily offended” on all sides of various issues are themselves generally offensive. Remember Al Capp’s SWINE – Students Wildly Indignant about Nearly Everything? They have not disappeared; some of them have just aged ungracefully.

This leads back to the issue of homosexual marriage. Rather, it leads to the larger issue of government approved marriage in general. Back in the “good old days” (think old fashioned dentistry) which some other old farts may recall, when most husbands worked to provide for their families and most wives stayed at home to bake cookies, clean house and care for the kids, there were arguably valid reasons for limited government oversight of marriage. Stay-at-home wives with no independent means of support and neither job opportunities nor experience needed security; divorce proceedings or their prospect provided at least some. That beats welfare, one of the few alternatives. The situation has changed, for better or worse.

The only current basis for governmental intervention in marriage which seems to make sense is that governments provide many benefits to, and impose a few penalties on, those who are married in ways of which governments approve. The benefits, however marriage may be officially defined, may well promote marriage. However, they also promote divorce since only officially married people can obtain divorces and many of them do.

When governments have financial interests in marriage, they are likely to act according to their views of marriage or at least whatever views the politicians currently in power deem politically expedient. Governor Schwarzenegger was for Proposition 8 before he was against it. And there lies a problem. A similar problem exists in federal funding for education. To the extent that the federal government holds the purse strings, it controls what is taught and how it is taught. The Tenth Amendment is not significantly implicated in this sort of federal intervention because the states accept the money and the accompanying conditions voluntarily. As with most drugs, addiction follows.

Reverting to Judge Walker’s California Proposition 8 decision, it revolved about two essential but dubious findings. First, Proposition 8 was claimed to have passed because of animosity toward homosexuals. I suspect the proponents of Proposition 8 did not do a very good job of challenging the “facts” behind this finding. The notion itself is rather strange; sociologists can form opinions on all sorts of matters and if they have appropriate credentials their opinions are treated as “expert” opinions, similar to testimony as to facts, and are entitled to some weight. Only “expert opinions” count. I may have a strong opinion about the superior intelligence of Akita pups compared to Border Collie pups. My opinion would not be admissible in court, even if highly relevant to a contested issue of relative pup intelligence, because I am not an expert in such matters. Expert opinions aside, however, actually knowing what motivates people to vote one way or another is impossible, just as it is impossible to know whether a particular person, for example a judge, is actuated by chronic constipation or particular empathy toward some group of people. Even if specific Californians testified under oath that they voted for Proposition 8 because of hatred for homosexuals, there is no apparent reason to impute their hatred to others. Even if there were, so what? Some people probably voted for Senator Obama because they hated President Bush passionately and transferred their hatred to the Republican presidential nominee. Lots of hate for Governor Palin was also evident. So? Even a conclusive showing that sufficient numbers voted for President Obama on the basis of hatred to cause his election would not be a valid basis for invalidating it. Generally, the personal motivations of voters have no bearing on the legitimacy of elections and people are free to vote as they wish. Handsome and pretty candidates (other than certain governors of Alaska) probably have an advantage over hideous candidates and, like it or not, race matters, sometimes more than substantive issues.

Second, Judge Walker found that homosexuals who are denied the “right” to marry each other are thereby stigmatized and their committed relationships lack societal respect. That may be true; however, legal recognition of homosexual marriage seems unlikely to make a difference.

If people want to consider themselves and to be considered by others “married,” they have some pretty good alternative options. Years ago, my wife (a woman) and I (a man) were married twice, to each other, over a period of several months. Our first marriage was conducted with the benefit of a marriage license in Annapolis, Maryland by a delightful Anglican priest. He expressed no problem with our requested modifications to the Book of Common Prayer marriage ceremony to delete religious references. Lots of our friends, some religious and some not, attended and the ceremony was followed by a big party. My wife’s family and many of her old friends live in California, so we had an unofficial second “marriage” ceremony there later – using the same modified ceremony but with no California marriage license because we were already married. A family friend who was a Protestant chaplain at Stanford University presided. It was also a great ceremony, also followed by a big party.

It seems quite likely that many clergymen and others would be willing to conduct unofficial religious, quasi-religious or non-religious ceremonies for homosexual couples, without the benefit of a marriage license, and perhaps even sneak in such words as “I now pronounce you married.” (“I now pronounce you man and wife” could be a tad awkward.) I can think of no reason why homosexual couples who want them can’t have such celebrations and consider themselves “married.” Nor can I think of any reason why friends and colleagues who would refuse to honor their unofficial mutual commitment would honor a state approved homosexual marriage ceremony instead. Some churches would likely consider the couple to be “living in sin” in either event and refuse them various sacraments; that’s an important part of religious freedom.

An unofficial ceremony would currently have no legal effect, but so what? The various legal incidents of marriage (aside from government benefits and penalties and the ability to obtain a divorce) could be taken care of by contracts and wills; any interactions between the happy couple and official busy-bodies could be dealt with, as California has done, by conferring the same rights on those in civil unions as upon those who are married. The federal tax consequences of official marriage may (or may not) be heading toward the rocks, since a federal district judge in Gill v. OPM recently found substantial constitutional problems with federal reliance on the Defense of Marriage Act which defines marriage as between one man and one woman:

[T]his court is convinced that “there exists no fairly conceivable set of facts that could ground a rational relationship” between DOMA and a legitimate government objective. DOMA, therefore, violates core constitutional principles of equal protection.

The same argument could be made about long term committed but unofficial homosexual and heterosexual relationships. Their recognition for tax and other governmental purposes might well create administrative chaos, but there is so much of that already that the addition would hardly be noticed. These questions may be answered, by the Congress if not by the Supreme Court, one of these fine days. Otherwise, our unelected and unaccountable “civil servants” will probably have to try to answer them — for tax, social security, veterans’ benefits ad infinitum.

The government is a bloated, intrusive and obnoxious busy-body. Even sweet, considerate and kind nannies, like Mary Poppins, aren’t so intrusive. Absent very compelling reasons, governments should leave people alone to conduct their own affairs (interpret “affairs” as you will). Are these Utopian fantasies? Probably, but at least I can have and express them.

Articles written by Dan Miller
Tags: civil unions, homosexuality, marriage, Proposition 8, religion, states rights
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8 Responses to “Homosexuality, Marriage, and Religion”

Brian | August 13th, 2010 at 6:50 am

Certainly nothing I can add to this. Brilliant, Dan, absolutely brilliant!

Tom Carter | August 13th, 2010 at 7:43 am

I agree. Government should stay out of people’s lives, to the maximum extent possible. Not only that, people should stay out of other people’s lives, too. Religion is one of the primary problems — some trying to force others to live according to beliefs they don’t agree with. Gay marriage is the perfect example, but there are many others.

Arthur Breur | August 13th, 2010 at 1:09 pm

Dan: While I found your article to be well thought out and well argued overall, I do feel that you underestimate the real world differences between a legal marriage and a collection of “contracts and wills”—by underplaying the number of actual legal and business benefits that are associated with marriage, and overlooking the SOCIAL significance of marriage, namely being considered part of the same “family” as your spouse. http://www.religioustolerance.org/mar_bene.htm

Dan Miller | August 13th, 2010 at 2:17 pm

Arthur, thanks. I found the article you cited interesting and informative; there are really lots of benefits associated with heterosexual marriage and my wife and I benefit from many of them.

As to DOMA, I think it may be heading toward the rocks due to the decision in Gill v. OPM concluding that it “violates core constitutional principles of equal protection.” I have not heard that the Justice Department plans to appeal the decision with much if any vigor. Something, and aside from getting rid of the benefits or making them more widely available to those (heterosexual as well as homosexual) in permanent relationships other than marriage I don’t really know what. Changing the various laws and administrative regulations implicated in DOMA to equalize the treatment of all would be an Herculean task and seems unlikely; it may not even be a good idea.

Ge0ffrey | August 13th, 2010 at 3:48 pm

There are plenty of natural law and non-religious arguments against homosexuality. It is not a natural co-equal with heterosexuality. Not by any stretch of the imagination. Men and woman are complementary, not only physically, but emotionally and psychologically.

Homosexuals have significantly higher levels of: mental health problems, psychological disorders such as suicide and depression, sexual addiction and coercion, promiscuity, STDs, violence, and addictions of all kinds including alcoholism and drug abuse.

Almost every society, primitive and complex, has had laws and taboos against homosexuality. This isn’t just a Christian thing. There will always be a visceral reaction to homosexuality because it goes to the very heart of the survival of our species.

Where homosexuality occurs in the animal world, it is primarily a temporary condition, and when the opportunity presents itself, animals will copulate heterosexually.

Two-parent heterosexual families, despite the exceptions, are proven over history, across cultures, as the better way for healthy child development. Healthy children produce healthy societies.

It’s time, in my opinion, for a Constitutional amendment that establishes once and for all that marriage is between one man and one woman. Then we can put this issue to bed.

Dan Miller | August 13th, 2010 at 4:13 pm

Ge0ffrey

Your analysis of homosexuality may, for all I know to the contrary, be right on the money. Although I have known homosexual couples, none of them have been raising children so I have no personal perceptions as to how they function. The “experts” seem to have varying opinions.

However, the U.S. Constitution is very difficult to amend and at the moment the chances of any amendment concerning anything seem negligible. As noted by the California Supreme Court in 2009 when it upheld the Proposition 8 amendment to the California Constitution,

the California Constitution, ratified in 1879, has been amended more than five hundred times; the U.S. Constitution, ratified in 1788, has been amended only twenty-seven times. One likely reason for this is that the California Constitution is far easier to amend than is the U.S. Constitution.

There is probably a reason for the paucity of amendments to the U.S. Constitution, and I don’t think it’s because nobody is interested.

Dan Miller | August 17th, 2010 at 7:26 am

The Distinct Court decision has been stayed at least until arguments are heard by the Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals in December. The rather short order is here. It is of interest that the order directs the proponents to focus on the issue of standing to pursue the appeal, which will probably be a troublesome issue for them.

Shantael Bryant | December 9th, 2010 at 11:44 am

i fully understand this article…people take gay marriage as a joke…if your gay and dont want to change for nobody then thats on you…why is the whole world part of it…just because you feel its nasty and discusting isnt the way everyone else feels about it…they consider homosexuals as aliens how come???becuase there different and dont want to talk to there same sex…no one should worry about nobody but thereselves…if you ask me the goverment is stupid every part of it…they make up new rules and regulations just because they cant tend to the things that are nessasary to tend to…why you so worried about gay marriages goverment…you should be worried about the homeless in america instead of being worried about people outside of the us…if you ask me yes homosexuals should have the right to marry if a girl feels compassion and love another girl thats their buisness…if a boy feels compassion and loves another boy thats there buisness…to be gay is to be happy and all the critisism homosexuals get makes them very unhappy and i would be the first to know…i feel that if i wasnt gay then i wouldnt be happy…if i dont like boys no one should make me wanna be with a boy…a homosexual has the same needs and desires as a heterosexual indivisual…the only difference is the way they have sex…i feel that if two indivisuals that are not the same gender fall in love…they should have the same econmic advantages and not be treated differently…this is my opinion